I never would have imagined such a day, in existence. I surely can call myself a Reader now. What kind, is still a mystery. But what entails is, give me a random piece and I would eat it up. Keeps things interesting and that is how I see it.
It is a matter of perspective after all. And what pushed me to finally write this, after putting out for long, is a fellow blogger.
Perspective, is something that our brain is wired to have. And it is at the heart of what makes your personality. You often draw from these very experiences to give you direction in time of need. I truly believe one would be lost if they don't form their opinions. Key though remains to avoid overdoing and be open minded when it comes to people. Everybody makes mistakes. Where am I getting with all this bull, you ask? It's the other side. I am an opinionated person to an extent. I do believe though, I am good at reading people somewhat. I am rigid, and also, flexible, if only you reason with me with logic. And all this leads to the inferno where I preach what I believe in, in no uncertain terms, so much so that sometimes I believed what works for me, works for everyone else, sometimes.
But the recent interview process, puts things into perspective, better than ever. If I may say so, people who converted, can be put into two very different schools of thought, yet they both succeeded. And, I probably am the one that stands alone. There was absolutely no preparation, as it often renders one giving cooked up answers. Even my clothes raised a couple of eyebrows among friends, since nothing matched. In short, it was what that has been ingrained into my soul, LITE LENA. On the other end, were people who have always studied hard, and prepared with equal vigor for the interview. Spic Span looks, with equally confident demeanor, and rightly so.
Realization is simple. You need to do what suits you, and gives that extra confidence in yourself to allow you to sail through. There's no right or wrong. So was I wrong in preaching what I did for the past year, and even now. Absolutely not. It's a matter of perspective. Only thing, I could have been less aggressive. But you can't really blame a man for LITEning the mood ;)
It is a matter of perspective after all. And what pushed me to finally write this, after putting out for long, is a fellow blogger.
Perspective, is something that our brain is wired to have. And it is at the heart of what makes your personality. You often draw from these very experiences to give you direction in time of need. I truly believe one would be lost if they don't form their opinions. Key though remains to avoid overdoing and be open minded when it comes to people. Everybody makes mistakes. Where am I getting with all this bull, you ask? It's the other side. I am an opinionated person to an extent. I do believe though, I am good at reading people somewhat. I am rigid, and also, flexible, if only you reason with me with logic. And all this leads to the inferno where I preach what I believe in, in no uncertain terms, so much so that sometimes I believed what works for me, works for everyone else, sometimes.
But the recent interview process, puts things into perspective, better than ever. If I may say so, people who converted, can be put into two very different schools of thought, yet they both succeeded. And, I probably am the one that stands alone. There was absolutely no preparation, as it often renders one giving cooked up answers. Even my clothes raised a couple of eyebrows among friends, since nothing matched. In short, it was what that has been ingrained into my soul, LITE LENA. On the other end, were people who have always studied hard, and prepared with equal vigor for the interview. Spic Span looks, with equally confident demeanor, and rightly so.
Realization is simple. You need to do what suits you, and gives that extra confidence in yourself to allow you to sail through. There's no right or wrong. So was I wrong in preaching what I did for the past year, and even now. Absolutely not. It's a matter of perspective. Only thing, I could have been less aggressive. But you can't really blame a man for LITEning the mood ;)
Like you mentioned, the "Key though remains to avoid overdoing and be open minded when it comes to people."
ReplyDeleteTruth is that people know it, but wouldn't do it, it's so hard to accept that there can be another reality :)
Yeah. You tend to believe what your experience has taught you. Not really bad, but the only thing to be certain of is that there are many different fishes in the sea.
Deletemy key take-away...perception, to each one his own!
ReplyDeleteTrue. My only question remains is, is one wrong in believing his/her perception and preaching that. After all, you can only preach what you know and believe in. It's for others to decide if they want to follow that it adapt.
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